Every Day Is Mother’s Day

As Mother’s Day approaches and I think of the mothers in my life, I reflect on not just my own mother and grandmothers but also people who have mothered me in some way at some time. Whether they have biological children of their own or not, at one point or another they have taken care of me, hugged me, encouraged me, and kept me going. And I think of Mother Earth herself—the way she nurtures us with her warm sun and her bounty of fruits and vegetables and how she comforts us with the gentle rolling of the ocean’s waves and majestic views of mountains reaching for the sky.
In so many ways, I had these loving women at the forefront of my mind as I wrote Gumbo Love. In the cookbook, I honor my grandmothers and their cooking prowess, my mother who may have been known more for her hospitality than good cooking, and also my sister, my daughters, and all my friends who have mothered me with food, love, and strength. I also revel in the simple goodness of Mother Earth’s creations that she shares with us—homegrown tomatoes, sweet corn, strawberries, and of course all the seafood my family cherishes.
There’s no way I could pick just one recipe from the book that represents all these mothers and shows my gratitude to them, but one that does stand out is Peets Buffett’s Lazy V Chocolate Fudge Cake. Even though my mother wasn’t known for her cooking, this one was a delicious standard she made for her parties on the pier.
From Gumbo Love
The methods and ingredients she used are unconventional and not at all the way I might approach this type of cake, but it worked. Is it any surprise that the daughter would do it differently than her mother? And yet, I am finding lately that there are so many things I do as she did—I seem to become more and more like her. I’d give a million dollars to have another cup of coffee with her. To this day, there doesn’t seem to be any rhyme or reason why this cake is called Lazy V, and that’s just one of the many things I wish I could ask her.
 
Peets Buffett’s Lazy V Chocolate Fudge Cake
Cake:
1 cup unsalted butter
1/4 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
1 cup water
2 cups sugar
2 cups all-purpose flour
1 1/2 teaspoons ground cinnamon
1/4 teaspoon sea salt
2 large eggs, at room temperature
1/2 cup buttermilk
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
Frosting:
1/2 cup unsalted butter
6 tablespoons heavy cream
1/4 cup unsweetened cocoa powder
3 cups confectioners’ sugar, sifted
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 cup pecan pieces
To make the cake:
1. Preheat the oven to 375 degrees. Grease a 9 x 15-inch baking pan with nonstick baking spray.
2. Combine the butter, cocoa powder, and water in a medium saucepan and heat over medium heat, stirring continuously, until the butter has melted and the ingredients are well combined. Remove from the heat.
3. In a large bowl, sift together the sugar, flour, cinnamon, and salt.
4. Add the hot butter mixture to the dry ingredients and beat until smooth.
5. In a small bowl, beat the eggs, buttermilk, and vanilla. Add a little of the warm chocolate batter to the egg mixture to temper the eggs. Mix until well combined.
6. Slowly add the egg mixture to the chocolate batter and beat until smooth.
7. Pour the batter into the prepared baking pan. Bake for 20 to 25 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into the center of the cake comes out clean.
8. Frost the cake while it’s still hot.
To make the frosting:
1. In a medium saucepan, combine the butter, cream, and cocoa powder and heat over medium heat, stirring continuously, until the butter has melted and the ingredients are well combined. Remove from the heat.
2. Add the confectioners’ sugar and beat until smooth.
3. Stir in the vanilla and pecans.
4. Pour the hot frosting over the hot cake and spread it to the edges of the cake.
Note: You can actually freeze this cake in the pan. It will last in the refrigerator for 1 to 2 weeks or in the freezer for up to 2 months.

Three Favorite Things

My Three Favorite Things about LuLu’s

Spring! The time of new beginnings. As we begin our new journey in North Myrtle Beach with our new LuLu’s location and as the building gets closer to completion and we can truly see how much fun it’s going to be, I can’t help but reflect on what a gift LuLu’s has been in my life. Do I ever get sick of eating at LuLu’s? No way, Jose. Every day is a different adventure at LuLu’s, even for me who knows it inside and out and sometimes eats there several times a week!
Here are my Three Favorite Things about LuLu’s:
Family Fun
From the beginning of LuLu’s, when it was basically me, a bait shop, and a gumbo pot, the restaurant has been a family affair. My brother helped with the seed money, my daughters pitched in to help keep it running, my friends pitched in, my mother came and ate everyday for lunch, giving the place the pleasure of her blessing and presence in her favorite booth. So when I walk into LuLu’s in Gulf Shores or Destin and I see families sitting around a big table talking and laughing or parents watching their children play in the sand, I feel pride in the fact that we’ve created a place where everybody can have fun and get along (at least long enough to share a plate of nachos and eat a burger and fries!). We truly try to make LuLu’s a haven for all so that everyone can find something to eat, something to try, something to see or play that will give them a happy family memory the way LuLu’s has given me so many happy family memories.
Music
I don’t care if it’s a high school band marching in a parade, a guy on a street corner playing a fiddle, or a concert in front of forty thousand people, there is just something about live music that gets my mojo flowing. These days there aren’t many chances to experience good live music without cover charges or tickets, and being able to offer live music every night at LuLu’s is so important to me. There is something about the way the sound of it carries in the seabreezes of our beautiful locations, and for music lovers young and old I hope they take a little of that mojo home with them when they leave.
Vacation Sensation
Whether you come to LuLu’s from Minnesota or right-down-the-roada, whether you’re here for the week or your lunch break—my wish for you at LuLu’s is that you experience a vacation state of mind while you’re here. I love to say,”Leave the real world behind!” So our tropical colors, our lawns of sand instead of grass, our pretty-colored drinks, and our world-class water views are all in place to help you soak up the vacation sensation and forget about real life for a while. I’m also so proud of all of our employees because they truly want to make you feel like a guest and pamper you with food and smiles during your “stay” with us. Family vacations for the Buffetts were always a treasured week of pure freedom from worry and responsibilities, and so I love that we take these negative nellies off your plate while you’re at LuLu’s.
You’ll notice I didn’t include food in my favorite things. You know me well enough by now to know that food as a favorite thing goes without saying!!! In my world, there is no Family Fun, Music, or Vacation Sensations without the presence of food to go with it!
Last year I wrote a blog about my favorite foods at LuLu’s, so I’ll remind you here in case you’re coming our way soon or you need to do a little food-based daydreaming: Nachos, Fish Tacos, Fried Shrimp, Pa-menna Cheeseburger, and Fried Crab Claws. Do come see us and get your food fix along with a healthy dose of my favorite things about LuLu’s!

Green Gumbo Love

Only one more week of Lent for the hardy souls observing this season of reflection. As spring keeps springing up before us with flowers, blue crabs, and more hours of daylight, a lot of people are still going through some cold weather as if Mother Nature wants to remind us who is in charge and that she does not need to make up her mind right now!

Well if Key Lime Pie was an antidote for Spring Fever, and Fry-Days are the cure for Lent cravings, I have one more healing recipe up my sleeve. This one ticks off a lot of boxes…it’s warm and comforting so it’s perfect if your spring is still a little chilly. It’s got plenty of greens in it, so its green color reflects all the new growth of spring vegetation while packing a nutritious punch. Traditionally, it was made on Holy Thursday and served on Good Friday, and it qualifies as meatless if you’re keeping Lent rules. I’ve also included some “options” for those rule-breaking carnivores out there (not me, of course!!!).
So, drumroll, please, for our last week of Lent hero…
Gumbo Z’Herbe from Gumbo Love
12 cups chicken or vegetable broth
1 pound andouille or other smoked sausage, cut into 1/8-inch rounds or half-moons (optional)
1 cup vegetable oil
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
2 large onions, coarsely chopped
1 bunch celery, including leaves, coarsely chopped
2 green bell peppers, coarsely chopped
4 garlic cloves, finely chopped
2 bay leaves
1 tablespoon LuLu’s Crazy Creola Seasoning or other Creole seasoning
1 ham hock (optional)
3 pounds assorted greens, such as turnip, collard, mustard, or kale, chopped (about 14 cups)
Sea salt (optional)
4 to 6 cups cooked white rice
Filé powder (optional)
1. In a large stockpot, bring 10 cups of the broth to a simmer.
2. In a large, heavy skillet, cook the sausage (if using) over medium heat until browned. Use a slotted spoon to transfer it to a paper towel-lined plate. Pat well with paper towels to soak up extra grease and set aside.
3. To make the roux, in a large stockpot, heat the vegetable oil over medium-high heat. When the oil is hot, gradually add the flour, whisking continuously. Continue to stir the roux, adjusting the heat as necessary to keep it from burning, for 25 to 35 minutes, or until the roux is a dark mahogany color. Be careful—if the roux burns, you will have to start all over again!
4. Carefully add the onion to the roux and cook, stirring with a large wooden spoon, for 2 to 3 minutes. (The onion will sizzle and steam when it hits the hot roux, so caution is advised. All seasoned gumbo cooks have roux battle scars on one or both arms.)
5. Add the celery and cook, stirring continuously, for 2 to 3 minutes more.
6. Add the bell pepper and cook, stirring continuously, for 1 to 2 minutes more. The mixture should resemble a pot of black beans in color and texture.
7. Add the garlic and cook for 1 to 2 minutes more.
8. Slowly stir in the hot broth and add the bay leaves and Creole seasoning.
9. Add the ham hock and sausage (if using), and all the assorted greens (the greens will cook down in size, so pile them all in). If you are not using ham hock or sausage, taste and season the gumbo with salt. Reduce the heat to low, cover the pot, and simmer gently for 1 hour and 15 minutes, stirring about every 20 minutes and skimming off any fat and foam from the surface as necessary.
10. Remove the ham hock (if using). The meat should be falling off the bone. Remove and discard the skin, fat, and bone, and chop the meat into pieces before returning it to the pot.
11. Gumbo is always better the day after it has been cooked, although I’ve never had a complaint when I served it the day I made it. At this point, you can cool the gumbo. Turn off the heat and let it sit for about 30 minutes. Then place the pot, uncovered, in an empty sink. Fill the sink with cold water and and ice around the stockpot (try not to get any in the stockpot itself). Stir every 15 minutes to facilitate cooling. When completely cool, refrigerate the gumbo in the stockpot, uncovered.
12. When ready to serve, slowly bring the gumbo to a simmer over medium-low heat. If desired, use the remaining 2 cups broth to adjust the consistency of the gumbo, thinning it as needed. Remove and discard the bay leaves. Serve over cooked white rice. If desired, set filé powder out on the table so everyone can add it to their gumbo to their preferred thickness and taste
Photo: Angie Mosier

All The Pretty Flowers

Although the official first day of spring is this Tuesday, March 20, with  daylight savings time and the beautiful flowers blooming everywhere I feel like spring has already sprung! This weekend has been Arts and Crafts in Fairhope, a long-time hometown for me and home of one of my girls and my grandchildren. We have loved the festival for generations. My mother used to take my girls when they were little. It’s a beloved family tradition.

Already picturesque, right now and for many weeks to come, Fairhope is lush with  beautiful Springtime flowers that the town has become known for nationwide. Even the garbage cans  are adorned with splashes of pink and purple blooms! Not only are the planted flowers a feast for the eyes and senses – so are the wisteria and the azaleas and all of the other colorful flowers that grow naturally in abundance along the roads and literally in the ditches!

With so much stress and chaos in the world I sometimes need a reminder to appreciate the beauty that is all around. The colorful bright season of gorgeous blooms could not come at a better time. Hallelujah … Easter  is almost here and there is lots more sunshine on the horizon as we approach the spring break season and then summer.  I hope you all will be reminded, like I have been this weekend, to take a moment of peaceful pause and quiet to stop and count your blessings and admire all the pretty flowers – even and especially if it’s by a garbage can.

#SeeTheGood #LiveLoveEnjoy #HappySpring

More Light in Our Lives

Springing forward. I love how hopeful that sounds. The promise of spring, the season of rebirth, moving ahead to new things. And yet that first morning, unless you set an alarm (you go-getters!), you can’t help but wake up in a little bit of a panic. The morning sun breaks through the windows and you feel like you’re already an hour behind on your day!

But then, later that day, dinnertime rolls around and the sun is still out! And the possibilities for more light in our lives unfold with springtime wonder: eating dinner outside or on the porch, going for an after-dinner walk, fitting in an afternoon boat ride, taking a bike ride with a picnic in your basket, walking to a restaurant instead of driving, watering your plants and enjoying your garden at the end of the end of the day, sitting on the beach with a good book, doing a little after-work fishing, playing outside with the grandchildren. A little more sunlight means a whole lot more to do and experience.

Fall and winter have given us the opportunity to hibernate, to hunker-down and enjoy cozy comfort foods and time for thinking and daydreaming by the fireside under a soft warm blanket. Now spring invites us back outside to use and celebrate all that creative energy we’ve been storing up over the cold dark months—more light for walking, biking, picnicking, boating, fishing, gardening, and playing in the sun.

So when that first panic hits, I’ll remember I’m getting extra time in my day not less. Now, what to do first…

What will YOU do with more light in your life?

Hallelujah! It’s Blue Crab Season

It’s starting to feel like Spring for most of us. I know y’all up North are suffering this last nor’easter … and I’m SO sorry! We are waiting for you at LuLu’s with open arms and lots of sunshine!!

I welcome the change of season for lots of reasons – longer days, warmer temps, and … drumroll please….. Blue Crab season is upon us – which means ….

Jumbo. Lump. Crabmeat.  It is Sunday — so can I get a Hallelujah?!?!
Jumbo lump is one of the greatest pleasures and finest delicacies in the world. The Blue Crab is found solely along the coast of Nova Scotia and the Gulf of Mexico. My grandfather, the original Captain Buffett was from Nova Scotia and in a true epic journey he finally settled in Biloxi, MS (another story for another blog post), home to some of the tastiest crab meat I’ve ever found. As a foodie, I have been spoiled by the abundance and availability of jumbo lump. It’s one of my favorite sea foods. The love of the sweet and tender blue crab meat runs deep in my family genes.
As I wrote in Gumbo Love, my mother was famous for her West Indies salad – which is basically a jumbo lump crabmeat salad. It was and still is my sister’s favorite dish. So when LaLa would come home to visit there was always a big bowl of it in the refrigerator. Every time Peets would go see my brother play a concert, she took a big huge bowl of it to the band and the crew. There was a buzz on the  backstage walkie talkies…  “The West Indies Salad is here.” They of course already loved my mother and treated her like a queen, but her West Indies Salad took her status to a whole other level as a genius goddess extraordinaire. Yes. West Indies Salad is THAT good!
And so as life and seasons continue to roll on and forward, I am grateful for the arrival of these seasonal foods, that awaken not only our taste buds but also awaken other senses and sweet memories of family heritage and fun times past.
Isn’t good food just wonderful!?!
What foods bring up sweet family memories for you? I’d love to hear your stories!

Spring Fever Antidote

It’s that time of year that’s no longer winter and yet not quite true spring.

One day it’s fifty degrees and windy and the next day it’s seventy and sunny. One day you’re freezing and the next day the pollen and gnats are out. The weeds have popped up green and some of the trees are starting to bud and bloom. I think we’re finished with most of the chilly temps, but I am ready for tank top and flip-flops weather without a sweater. Spring is quickly approaching, I know, but not as quickly in some places as others. All the topsy-turvy, in-between, and back-and-forth period of time gives this Gulf Coast gal spring fever!

As with any difficult waiting period, I turn to good food and friends to keep me occupied. Key Lime Pie is the chicken noodle soup for a bad case of spring fever. Make one, invite your friends over, and with each bite you’re transported to the warm sunny tropical location of your imagination.

The Florida Keys make for excellent daydreams of spring, sand, blue-green water, and luscious, cool, melt-in-your mouth pie. And even though true Florida-grown key limes aren’t in season yet, bottled key lime juice is like spring in a bottle!

Here’s my Key Lime Pie recipe from LuLu’s Kitchen. I’ve also got a recipe in there for Key Lime Squares if you’d prefer your spring in a bar instead of a pie.

Key Lime Pie with Grand Marnier Whipped Cream

 

Makes 1 pie

 

2 cups finely crushed graham crackers

1 stick unsalted butter, melted

3 tablespoons sugar

1 teaspoon unflavored gelatin

2 tablespoons cold water

2 egg yolks

½ cup fresh or bottled key lime juice

1 (14-ounce) can sweetened condensed milk

Grand Marnier Whipped Cream (see below)

Fresh lime, thinly sliced, for garnish

 

  1. Preheat the oven to 350˚F.
  1. Combine graham cracker cookie crumbs, melted butter, and sugar in a small mixing bowl.
  1. Press evenly into a 9-inch pie pan with your hands or the back of a spoon.
  1. Bake for about 10 minutes until lightly brown.
  1. Set aside to cool.
  1. In a small mixing bowl, dissolve gelatin in water, stir, and set aside.
  1. In a heavy saucepan, combine the egg yolks and lime juice and stir over medium-low heat for 10 minutes or until slightly thick and very hot. Be careful not to bring to a full boil.
  1. Add the softened gelatin to the lime juice mixture.
  1. Whisk well until gelatin is dissolved, approximately 1 minute.
  1. To quickly cool the mixture, place the saucepan in a large bowl filled with ice.
  1. When completely cool, gradually whisk in the condensed milk, stirring until blended well and the mixture becomes thick.
  1. Spoon into the graham cracker crust and spread evenly.
  1. Cover the custard with plastic wrap and refrigerate.
  1. When ready to serve, top the pie with fresh Grand Marnier Whipped Cream and lime slices.

 

 

For Grand Marnier Whipped Cream:

 

½ pint heavy whipping cream, well chilled

2 tablespoons sugar

1 tablespoon Grand Marnier liqueur (optional)

 

  1. In a stainless steel mixing bowl, combine cream, sugar, and liqueur.
  2. Whip on high until the cream holds peaks. Be careful not to over-whip the cream or it will separate. The cream is properly whipped when you can drag a finger through it and a trough remains.

 

 

LuLu Clue: Chill the stainless steel bowl and beaters before whipping the cream for quicker results.

 

Lucy Buffett

Fish On Friday

Photo credit: Angie Moiser from the cookbook Gumbo Love

Growing up Catholic, it was ingrained into my psyche and into the family routines of most of our friends to abstain from meat on Fridays throughout the year. Back in the 1960’s a tradition started with restaurants offering a Friday Fish Fry as a relatively inexpensive way for working and middle-class Catholics to dine out with their families while still adhering to the rules.
Usually (and especially in my younger more rebellious days) I never met a rule I didn’t question, but a day dedicated to eating seafood seemed like good idea, possibly real divine intervention!

In my humble opinion, there is no better way to enjoy seafood than deep-fried. In Gumbo Love I write about Fridays being “Fry-Days” when we can celebrate the art of this Southern way. I, like most folks, have had to change some of my overindulgent habits as I get older. Abstaining more from my favorite comfort foods (or preparation methods) has been one of those modifications. BUT, the good Buffett that I am can not resist my genetic pull to the ‘fried side’ and say … sometimes you just have to live it up! In Gumbo Love I write a lot about frying methods and offer several recipes for fried seafood. My mouth waters just reading “to bread or to batter – that is the question.”

It’s truly a family tradition that I cherish and will be celebrated for as long as I’m around!

“So if you’re gonna fry, fry happy. Make it a family gathering. Make it a party. Make the save-up worth it and enjoy…”

Can’t wait til next Fry-day!!

I’m curious, do you have any Lenten traditions or family traditions that involve food and do you still celebrate them?

Lucy Buffett

It’s A Happy Birthday Mardi Gras Cake Party!

We celebrate the birthday of LuLu’s on Fat Tuesday every year.

If you’re a child of the Mardi Gras, you know about getting that King Cake Baby. It’s a symbol of good luck and prosperity and also designates who gets the honor of bringing the cake to the next party. Unlike celebrating a Christmas birthday, where it might feel like getting a little cheated on presents- a birthday on Mardi Gras means double the party and the cake fun!

King Cake season starts on 12th Night, or January 6th and goes until Fat Tuesday. So there’s lots of opportunities to get the baby! Traditional King Cake is more like a coffee cake – not as sweet as some of the more modern varieties – like cream cheese filled or my all-time favorite, the King Cake Krispy Kreme Doughnut. It’s no secret though … I’ll pretty much take cake however it comes! Did somebody say #CrazySweetTooth? Lol.

Because it’s also the birthday of the restaurant, our LuLu’s Gulf Shores Mardi Gras has evolved into the best birthday celebration on the Gulf Coast! It’s become a tradition for so many of us – a fun party, a great day, and as good a reason as any to take a short break from the rigors of life and enjoy some extra sweetness! While we have the King Cake at home for breakfast, every year on Mardi Gras we have a table full of beautiful birthday cakes too! My favorite part of the day is when the cakes are served. Everyone stands around with a plate of cake, talking to family and strangers alike. It feels like a good old-fashioned intimate celebration with hundreds of our closest friends! Time to #LiveLoveLaugh!

Cheers to Mardi Gras and Happy Birthday LuLu’s! If you can’t come and eat a piece of cake with us … have some cake this Tuesday and celebrate with us in Spirit! #LaissezLesBonTempsRoulez #HappyBirthdayToUs

What’s your favorite birthday or family tradition cake?

Lucy Buffett

Step By Step Guide to a Gumbo Love Party

These days when I entertain at home, it is usually for a smaller group than in the old days of BIG shindigs.
The first thing I do when planning a party is pull out an old-fashioned yellow legal pad and a good pen. Then I sit still, turn inward, and start to visualize. To my inner vision, I add people, place, and time of day. I see the layout, colors, lighting, and the Feng Sui of the space. When I open my eyes, I start to write down the menu.

Because cooking is an act of love, and having a party is a great way to decompress from this challenging world… I want to feed my guests to experience comfort, delight, connection, and FUN.

I think about every person who will be in attendance and gather any notes I know about certain likes, dislikes, possible allergies,
dietary preferences (like who’s on a diet and who’s not – lol). This gives me direction in planning. And of course, a pot of gumbo is always at the top of my list. I love making it. And everyone loves eating it.

You know when you’re at a party and you realize a hush has fallen over the room – and it is because the food has been served, and everyone is simultaneously enjoying the flavors and warmth, and joy of being fed? These are the moments that I live for! This is how I Gumbo Love!

What’s your favorite occasion to throw a party? How do you do it?

Lucy Buffett